My husband does not want to talk to me.He likes to sit in front of laptop and to ignore me ?

i got married 3 years back.Now i m having a baby.After marriage he had started to fight with me as he wants me to be traditional.i changed myself 50% but he wants complete.He gives money to his family and to me only for grocery.If i ask him more.Everytime his answer is "why do u want more.Here i m earning for u only."I cant spent money as i want.Though i m engineer he doesnt allow me to join a job.If i want to go for interview he fights with me.But his mother and sister are working women.In week days when he comes back from office or also on weekends he likes to sit in front of laptop.He likes to watch dirty clips on internate but wen i come near to him he closes all.He also doesnt like to have a with me,It is hardly once in 2 or 3 months.He doesnt allow me to wear sleeveless nighty.I should wear clothes covering all over body at home in bedroom also.After marriage not a single time he holded my hand with love or said "I love u".According to him these are ridiculous and I live in the world of imagination.He gives me money for food,he purchases clothes for me,He had purchased a mobile and watch..this is a love for him.After coming home from office he fights with me on small topics like why kitchen is like this.Why this clothe is on the bed?though that has been doen by my son.And his answer is u r blaming my son.He spents his 3/4 salary on his relatives .If i said we should save money for future and his answer is "i hate u .you dont like my family".Wen there is fight in front of in laws .They blame me telling me, "Dont say like this or do this .He doesnt like this.He is very short tempered.He will do anything to u."Instead of solving the matter.I am not able to sleep at night .When i feel alone i cry..Plz tell me what should i do?